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  1. Beef

    Beef Well-Known Member

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    She's Skyping with me. ;)
     
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  2. PompeyLapras

    PompeyLapras Well-Known Member

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    I don't doubt that she is skyping avec her parents, however, I am far from convinced that things are okay between us
     
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  3. Le Tissier's Laces

    Le Tissier's Laces Well-Known Member

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    That'll be the voices in your head. One way of making 100% sure they're not right between you is by giving off those vibes.
     
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  4. Beef

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    If you carry on like you are, the only thing you are getting is ill.
     
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  5. PompeyLapras

    PompeyLapras Well-Known Member

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    Unless female intuition is more like telepathy, I doubt she'll be able to sense those vibes via Facebook.

    Anyway, my plan for now is to leave it for this evening unless she messages me (she won't), then maybe try one last time on Tuesday or Wednesday...
     
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  6. fran-MLs little camera

    fran-MLs little camera Well-Known Member

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    So she isn't ignoring you completely...that's positive. But that doesn't mean you can start planning your stag night. Just take it as it comes. If this doesn't work out, your life hasn't ended...you hardly know her.
     
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  7. PompeyLapras

    PompeyLapras Well-Known Member

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    I've already planned my Stag Night. Vegas, baby
     
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  8. St. Luigi Scrosoppi

    St. Luigi Scrosoppi Well-Known Member

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    Look PL next time you see a girl you fancy talk to me about it and I will woo her for you Cyrano de Bergerac or John Alden style.

    That way you will be guaranteed that she'll fall madly in love with you in no time.

    Well in both cases that is what was meant to happen. Let us just hope she does not respond like Roxanne or Priscilla Mullins.
     
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  9. Le Tissier's Laces

    Le Tissier's Laces Well-Known Member

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    Exactly.

    *Goes for a lie-down*
     
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  10. Archers Road

    Archers Road Urban Spaceman

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    You worry too much mush.
     
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  11. Saints_Alive

    Saints_Alive Well-Known Member

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    Hope all of Soton Not606 is invited!.....<bubbly>

    Seriously Pomps, if she was interested in you in that way you would pretty much know for sure by now. You can remain friends with her, but it's time to move on to the next one and remember, it's a numbers game, like the lottery, the more girls you ask the more chance of finding that special one there is.
     
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  12. ThatThereSaintsFan

    ThatThereSaintsFan Well-Known Member

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    No. Wait until she messages you. She's aware you like her you've made that very clear, if she wants to take things further she will. You messaging and nagging (I know that's not how you mean it but that's how it will come across) will only push her further away.

    PLAY IT COOL. Wait for her to come to you, if you get on as well as you think it'll happen.
     
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  13. Beef

    Beef Well-Known Member

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    PL and playing it cool?
     
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  14. Le Tissier's Laces

    Le Tissier's Laces Well-Known Member

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    PL, put it this way, you know that feeling of relief/excitement you got when she finally messaged you? Get her to feel like that. I bet you got back to her a millisecond after she messaged you? Just leave it, as has been stated above. Then if/when she does send a message (which she will if you have any chance here at all) leave it a few hours (or a day) before getting back to her. If you do it immediately you'll look desperate, and there's nothing more unattractive (as we have ALL said countless times to you).
     
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  15. fran-MLs little camera

    fran-MLs little camera Well-Known Member

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    I sometimes wonder if PL is planning to write a book like Adrian Mole based on our advice.
     
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  16. Clem Fandango

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    He's a real life Mark Corrigen. This girl is probably the one.
     
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  17. Saints_Alive

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    Titled,The tribulations of trying to get into Pandora's box...:eek:
     
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  18. fran-MLs little camera

    fran-MLs little camera Well-Known Member

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    Did anyone see that American chap who objected to being dumped by a British girl that he met on line. He came over here intending to kill her and wipe her computer of evidence. Luckily, although he stabbed her in her bedroom, she was saved by her family who heard her scream. He's awaiting sentencing. No grasp of reality....so be careful, Pomps.
     
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  19. TheSecondStain

    TheSecondStain Needs an early night

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    If she's anything like you she's making the same mistakes in interpretation that you are. Your very nature, and hers, flavours what you say via Fleecebook. It's just another worse form of communication than speaking directly.

    Women don't come from another planet. They have more in common with blokes that perhaps you give them credit/debit for. They really are not an alien species, despite what comedians and serious pundits would have you believe.

    And in answer to your, as yet unwritten retort, no they aren't. :)
     
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  20. PompeyLapras

    PompeyLapras Well-Known Member

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    I waited over 5 days between messaging her, that's fairly cool surely?
     
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