Look PL it is all very simple. Just play hard to get mate. If she thinks you aren't interested that will hurt her ego and she will work very hard to get you interested. Women can't live with the thought that a bloke doesn't fancy them. Why do you think they are always asking "You do love me don't you?". Women will have you believe they are very complex when in fact they are very simple souls. I truly believe that given the fact that the very lovely Mrs Godders has stayed with me all these years despite my rather ugly features and my generally very high level of grumpiness.
If you don't get got then she wasn't interested in the first place. She didn't fancy you so move on and you have saved your energy (and possibly your money) for your next damsel wooing. Never look back and never ever have any regrets.
The undoubtedly very lovely Mrs Godders is suddenly beginning to strike me as a needy person with very low self esteem.
This might be of interest to PL: I'm in a presentation group for one of my modules and a girl in my group plays for Portsmouth Ladies!
*nods* PL - if she's not interested, she's not interested. Wasting time trying to get her interested will end up being precisely that. Wasted time.
Don't tell fibs. This is just feminine bravado. What would you do if you fancied a guy and he just ignored you?
