Okay, we talked more. It seems like she is too busy focused on uni and adjusting to uni life and so she's not thinking of relationships at the moment. But we've agreed to kinda continue how things are at the moment and see where that leads to, and I said I'd be willing to wait as long as necessary until she's ready.... Not an ideal situation BUT in the words of Cheryl Cole: 'anything that's worth having, is sure enough worth fighting for'.
Not for Pomps...she sounds perfect. Anyway never give up...look at Dec (from Ant and Dec)...marrying the woman who has been his manager for ten years.
Sometimes that means 'No way, Jose', sometimes it means what it says. If you have enough in common, go along with friendship for now....serves her right if you meet someone else in the meantime.
I would come to chat on the Pompey board, but I'd inevitably run into SB3, where I would probably end up wanting to smack him, so I don't tempt myself. What you guys let him get away with on there in terms of throwing insults around. We'd never let that happen here. Thankfully, posters have got respect for each other, so banter just stays as banter.
We've always tried to be as lenient as possible, I think we are lucky that most of our lot go back to the old 606 days, besides SB3 is just a harmless irritant, don't let him get to you. You should come on down and join in the fun.
What, me and Jen? Anyhow, reassure me.... After we agreed to continue as we are and just see how it goes, I said 'So still up for seeing the Hunger Games then? ;p'... There wasn't a terrible thing to say in the circumstances, right? We'd spoken about seeing earlier....
Hard luck PL. I agree with others on here though, you'd be much better off just letting things happen that trying to orchestrate them. Although I agree that's hard, lord knows how many times I've been in a situation with a girl that I've totally over analysed. But honestly just chill out and things will come naturally, take up a new hobby like the gym or something.
Until she's in relationship or she says she's not interested, I will not give up. Most girls I probably would in this situation, this girl however is special.
Watch yourself with that, I wasted a good 4 years of my love life chasing one girl and it didn't work out. Had to break contact all together in the end because things were just getting too confusing.
