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Discussion in 'Southampton' started by TheSecondStain, Jul 15, 2014.

  1. Jose Fonte baby

    Jose Fonte baby Well-Known Member

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    I get S Club 7 and Steps muddled up...am I alone? <laugh>
     
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  2. SAINTDON13

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  3. PompeyLapras

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    S Club 7 were the ones with the cheesy TV series

    So, er, how do you tell if a girl wants to be kissed?
     
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  4. fran-MLs little camera

    fran-MLs little camera Well-Known Member

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    England have pulled back the match v SA to 20-20 after 2 quick tries. Sod it...20-25.
     
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  5. TheSecondStain

    TheSecondStain Needs an early night

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    You give her the slow blink, and slightly raise your head, and if she returns it, it's guaranteed.

    Oops, no I forgot. That's saying, hi, how are you doing to a cat.

    Hey, you could give it a try anyway. :)
     
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  6. TheSecondStain

    TheSecondStain Needs an early night

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    It's crap without club footy during the colder months. I'm with Danny Baker on this. Who the hell thought up the international break..?
     
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  7. Saint Sosa

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    Come on, Nick Grimshaw did donate £30 on live TV. What a great man!
     
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  8. TheSecondStain

    TheSecondStain Needs an early night

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    I suppose everyone knows that Jessica Ennis has received rape threats for her stance on Sheff Utd and Ched Evans.

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-30059030

    It almost goes without saying that there are some disgusting individuals around.
     
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  9. PompeyLapras

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    I've never done that with my cat. Anyhow, seeing as it's a confirmed date, and she knows I like her, and she's presumably interested, a kiss wouldn't be completely out of the blue. She's probably anticipating it.... she may even be hoping for it. I just don't want to try and her to push me away. That would be mortifying
     
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  10. TheSecondStain

    TheSecondStain Needs an early night

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    At the risk of personal embarrassment, I'll tell you about an experience I had at 15 going on 16. I was at a family party and a girl was there and she just latched onto to me. Being a family do we had to be on a half-decent level of behaviour. We went from room to room and this girl just stayed with me and we talked and laughed a lot. And when I look back I missed dozens of opportunities to kiss her and become a real friend. At one point she just disappeared. I think she left with the friend who she came with, because the friend was leaving. I never saw her again, but I've never forgotten it because she was beautiful and really interesting and I know she was interested in me. These days I can't even remember her name. Everyone has these near misses in life, but it was my sheer inexperience that missed every signal, and occasionally I still wince at the young lad who really didn't quite have a clue. It wasn't his fault. He just had to learn. And it wasn't mortifying.

    Don't be scared. :)
     
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  11. fran-MLs little camera

    fran-MLs little camera Well-Known Member

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    Better to not kiss her and she wants you to, than to try and she'd rather you didn't.
     
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  12. fran-MLs little camera

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    Presumably his supporters think that he is innocent of rape, so why therefore would they think he would rape her. Illogical and suggests that it is more that some of them think rape is acceptable. Time for a few on-line warriors to get a nasty fright.
     
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  13. PompeyLapras

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    Oh gosh, two very contrasting pieces of advice there (although I appreciate them both). confused.com
     
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  14. fran-MLs little camera

    fran-MLs little camera Well-Known Member

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    Trust me...you have all the time in the world. If it goes well, you will get a second date and you take it from there.
     
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  15. PompeyLapras

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    Technically this is our second date.... sorta.

    Anyway, I was not going to force it of course, but if the opportunity arises...
     
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  16. Beef

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    Or kiss and she wants to? What harm can getting knocked back by a kiss do?
     
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  17. fran-MLs little camera

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    Can put you off a second date. Making a girl wary is never the right thing to do. I'm all for being forward and asking for a date...no point in holding off...but once she has agreed to a date, you don't want to put her off. No girl would be turned off by reticence.
     
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  18. St. Luigi Scrosoppi

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    What! Your second date and you haven't shagged her yet? ;)
     
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  19. TheSecondStain

    TheSecondStain Needs an early night

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    Just ignore the experienced man, PL. ;)
     
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  20. fran-MLs little camera

    fran-MLs little camera Well-Known Member

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    When you get to Godder's age, you have to act fast in case they die before the third date :)
     
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