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Discussion in 'Southampton' started by TheSecondStain, Jul 15, 2014.

  1. pompeymeowth

    pompeymeowth Prepare for trouble x
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    V true^^^ Laps you have to just be yourself dude. You're a good guy anyone who knows you on here can see that. Tell her you like what she's done with her hair, find some common ground, make sure you are well scrubbed up and it's all good.
     
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  2. fatletiss

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    Or PL more likely.

    He needs to stop thinking life is like a Disney film.
     
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  3. PompeyLapras

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    Tbf, I'm not saying I think I'm a creep or even that sshe thinks I am, the point is I don't think her reaction was one of being freaked out. As for my fear of rejection, I'm fighting that by actually going for it and asking her out (and not even digitally). I will ask for her number at somepoint. Also I'm reasonably confident most of the time irl, it's only online where my insecurities come out.

    And there's not enough singing for my life to be a Disney film
     
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  4. tomw24

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    PL, you need to stop dithering and go for it. Asking for a phone number is not too eager - it's the most obvious form of communication for arranging to meet up. Grow some balls. She may see you not asking for her number as you being unsure whether you want to meet up and will move on.
     
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  5. fran-MLs little camera

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    Perfectly reasonable to ask for the number of someone who has accepted an invitation.
     
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  6. tomw24

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    I asked for a girls number when I was at a nightclub when I was uni, first time I'd met her but we were getting along well and she gave it to me without hesitation. She knew I was a uni student because we'd seen each other around campus which helped. We were together all through uni. I haven't talked about it because by the end of uni we were really close but just after graduation she was offered a job in Australia. I was never going to stand in her way - it was such an amazing opportunity. She said she was willing to try a long distance relationship but I ended it - it wouldn't have been fair on either of us. It really hurt me to do it. This happened a year ago and it took me ages to get over it. I didn't even tell my family. We exchange messages on facebook and she's settled and found someone else. I'm sure I'll find someone else but it's going to take time. I thought for at least a year that she could be the one. Never mind, I'm happy for her.

    So PL, you never know what's going to happen when you ask for a girl's number. You've got to throw caution to the wind.
     
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  7. fran-MLs little camera

    fran-MLs little camera Well-Known Member

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    Bristol Academy women's team have beaten Barcelona Ladies 2-1 on aggregate in the Champion's League. Described as their greatest result. One for Pomps.
     
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  8. tomw24

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  9. fran-MLs little camera

    fran-MLs little camera Well-Known Member

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  10. tomw24

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    please log in to view this image


    <laugh>
     
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  11. Beef

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    I asked a girl (first time I had met her) in a club for a condom once (girls always carry them). But it wasn't for her, it was for my gf. <laugh>
     
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  12. Le Tissier's Laces

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    Ummm. No. I've lived this song for the past few months. I know exactly what it's like!
     
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  13. Le Tissier's Laces

    Le Tissier's Laces Well-Known Member

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    Nail. Head.
     
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  14. Clem Fandango

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    Has anyone got a Nokia Lumia? My phone died a horrible death after over zealous post Leicester match celebrations. I need a smart phone for less than a ton and you are all pretty savvy with phones...
     
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  15. tomw24

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    Beefy's your man.
     
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  16. Beef

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    What lumia are you looking at? If it's a 520 then yeah.
     
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  17. fran-MLs little camera

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    Four men have been arrested for illegalities in the purchase of Rangers.
     
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  18. Clem Fandango

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    Thanks. I'll just buy one tomorrow then it's killing me having to spend all my time at work, you know, working.
     
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  19. laurab12

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    Way way way past time
     
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  20. Beef

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    For under £100, 520 and Moto G are the best but I don't like Moto.
     
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