Sitting in corner of bar, leg crossed, drinking red wine ....speaking to every female who walks past...on way to toilet. "Good pish doll"
You have to stop thinking 'SHAG!' and focus on some of those little details that the opposite gender seem to feel is important. Like their name, for instance.
You'll be wanting me to talk to them and show some interest in their 'feelings' and **** like that next.