What's wrong with you? You aren't having your balls chopped off too? Ps - I'm guessing you mean your third baba? You should be happyyyyyy.
Yes, I meant the third. Wouldn't be happening if I had been allowed to have my way. NHS told me I was too young for the snip (can't afford to go private) PS...I am happy and the baby will be loved, just not what I'd have chose
I'm sure someone else would have offered to do the snip for you I'm sure he/she will be, I'll never know how you feel until I have one, I'm sure it's very scary, but it'll turn out alright I'm sure.
I wasn't scared at all with the other two, far from it. I was 26 when the eldest was born, already had my own house, a decent car and had been with the mrs for about four years (engaged for two at the time). I grew up around kids too because my mum was a childminder. However, this one is different. That house and car (three down the line mind) are not big enough and I know how much of a handful two are. People think that having a second is only going to twice the work but it doesn't work like that. With one, one of the parents is able to have a break/breather from time to time, you can share the duties. With two, you have one each and are constantly in demand. Not to mention when you have them on your own. It is more like treble to effort for two. I'm dreading what three will be like PS...isn't this meant to be the match thread discussion?
Where's the 'after-match' option. Much easier to predict the score and easier to make excuses if it goes pear shaped.
It wasn't my 'original guess'. Gonz said it took about 6 weeks from initial consultation or something similar.
