RIP mate. Sorry to hear. I don't mean to rain on your thread but a similar thing happened with my Grandad last time we went up. We were at Wembley and that summer he was taken from us following a stroke and unfortunately didn't survive long enough to see us in the Premier League. Great men taken from us
Some similarities with your dad Dids and I may even have known him as I was born and brought up down Hawthorn Ave, went to Wheeler St school and lived half of my life at Boothferry Park. And yes it did seems as if the whole city was at BP when they played Chelsea, heady days indeed. And ironically, my own father died in 1979 the same year our daughter was born but he never got to see her, so I understand where you are coming from but my dad wasn't a city supporter, he followed sport in general but it was me who was the City nut and to some extent still am but not with the passion I had then. There are black days even today 34 years later, my mum has gone as well and I caused them both some bother when I use to hitch hike to away games. Yes life is fickle and you don't realise until it comes to you until you loose someone close and unfortunately the older you get the more that happens, enjoy your life but always remember dad (and mum).
Really sorry to hear that Didsbury, I too remember your post of a few weeks back and at the time I replied that I, like many others on here have experienced a similar loss and appreciate how devastating it is. As everyone says it does get easier, it'll soon be 5 years since my Dad passed away and although on days like yesterday, I still miss not being able to enjoy sharing it with him, most of the time whenever I think of him it just brings a smile to my face. That's because my overiding memories of him are all the good times we shared together and the things we had in common, not least our love of City. It really does get easier, it won't happen overnight but gradually the feelings of loss change into just being grateful for having had such a great relationship with your old man. That was a very moving tribute and your Dad will continue to be with you in spirit, no more so than when you're cheering on the Tigers. Condolences to you and all of your family.
There are so many warming and wonderful comments from everyone on here that I can't thank you all enough. I'd like to be able to reply to each one individually but that's a bit impractical - but thanks so much everyone. However this one from Melu has really struck a chord with me for some reason. And that is, I keep scrolling down my phone to ring friends and family but keep seeing the entry 'Dad Mobile'. Of course I got everyday regular calls and texts from him from this number for many years, (often to discuss City's perfomance). But recently he was ringing and texting me from his hospital and ultimately hospice bed from this number and in the last few weeks just seeing it on Caller ID became heart breaking. Eventually he became so immobile and paralysed that even calling was impossible, but I still have his mobile entry on my phone as well as all our text message history, obviously including discussion about Hull City's results. As Melu says how on earth can I delete that??
If it helps, my Dad was born in 1946 and lived on Albert Avenue just off Rhodes Street, (he is survived by two elder brothers). Wheeler Street school sounds familiar but I'm far from certain, (I know he went to Kingston High at some point).
Its such a heartbreaking story. Thoughts are with you and your family. My dad is most annoying person in the world. But when I read stuff like this it makes me appreciate him even more.
Deepest condolences Dids. That was a wonderful tribute. Hopefully, your continuing support for City - win or lose - will give you memories to smile about.
Hugs Didsbury Tiger, there's a lot of us City fans who first got took to watch them by our dads. I don't know much but what I do know is every time you smile your dad smiles with you and he will live in in your thoughts and your heart for ever. When ever your watching City your dad will also be right there with you in your heart and thoughts. I know it's easy to say but live for your dad as he would so want you to live.. Like your dad my dad got to see City play in the premier league the first time, but my dad didn't this time. All the best to you and your family always. Enjoy every game...win, draw or lose Hugs
Sincere condolences to you and your family didsbury. Like you and others I lost my father fairly recently, he passed away 20 months ago. It does get easier with time, although never forgotten. And I still can't bring myself to get rid of my dads number from my phone
Well Didsbury ... You have done your dad proud mate and you sounded very close which I hope will help in times to come. Thoughts with you and your family mate.
