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Discussion in 'Southampton' started by TheSecondStain, Jan 31, 2013.

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  1. TheSecondStain

    TheSecondStain Needs an early night

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    You know what they say, PL. Fortune Favours The Brave. Why not go for it, and if she says Yes, then you're really in trouble. :)
     
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  2. Dan

    Dan Well-Known Member

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    But, you know, leave it a little bit. Breathing room and that. Unless you want to try to be the rebound?
     
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  3. PompeyLapras

    PompeyLapras Well-Known Member

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    I'm thinking I may leave it a bit.

    If I just jump in there right now, I'll seem like an insensitive jerk.

    Plus, they might just be on a break or something. One of my friends seemed to go through a rough patch with their gf and stopped being Facebook official, but she never changed status to single.
     
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  4. Dan

    Dan Well-Known Member

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    Noticed you talked about being friend zoned the other day. In which case, try not to be the shoulder to cry on for this girl right now. Sounds insensitive but it's firmly kicking open the "like a brother to me" door.
     
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  5. TheSecondStain

    TheSecondStain Needs an early night

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    But to this girl, you may end up being the best thing since sliced bread, PL. Don't play games. Be human. Games are for kids.
     
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  6. Dan

    Dan Well-Known Member

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    Yeah, do this, then come back and complain about being friendzoned and about how girls don't like nice guys and don't see what's right in front of them etc etc etc.

    If you want to dismiss it as "childish games" for the sake of simplicity go ahead, but the term "basic human psychology" applies just the same. Or, you may get lucky and find the one girl in a thousand that froths for the "here at your beck and call" guy.
     
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  8. TheSecondStain

    TheSecondStain Needs an early night

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    But Dan. You're the bloke who wants Flora Robson, or whatever her name is.. ;)
     
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    Brilliant, let her never be referred to as anything else on this forum for ever and ever and ever.

    :cheesy:
     
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  10. Dan

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    She's an exception, I would die for her. The lovely Flora <3
     
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    Mikey Well-Known Member

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    It's not as fun if you embrace it Dan, god.

    You ruin everything for me.
     
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  12. Dan

    Dan Well-Known Member

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    Could always target the other side of me and start saying Trailer Trash Taylor?
     
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  13. Joe!

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    It's not really games, it's just about giving her a bit of time to move on.
     
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  14. Joe!

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    According to Wikipedia she had a pretty luxurious upbringing in Pennsylvania.
     
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  15. Dan

    Dan Well-Known Member

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    Laura isn't made of margarine and I don't see anyone fact-checking the Flora nickname.
     
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    In minorly related girl news, I've just found out I've been playing it far too cool with a certain lady friend.

    I did save it though, and now it looks like something could be happening sooner rather than later.
     
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  17. Dan

    Dan Well-Known Member

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    Khal Drogo is a hipster. Damn.
     
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  18. Beddy

    Beddy Plays the percentage

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    PL for goodness sake.......If she has gone on face book she has made it very public they have broken up.......As you say she could be at what I used to say was a half way stage and yes they could get back together. How ever if you were to casually say that you saw she had broken up with her boyfriend.....ask her if she would like to drown her sorrows...no strings attached and see if she would go out. If she accepts don't push it just go out as friends then if the night goes ok and you think you have got on ask for another date. If you try and get into her knickers on that first date you may be lucky but there probably won't be another chance....So slowly slowly catchee monkey and all that and you never know.....but strike early...leave it at your peril.......Now there's some advice I gave my son some 15 years ago....He has been married now to the girl in question coming up 10 years and have two lovely daughters.....It might work for you but it wont if you don't try!!
     
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  19. Joe!

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    It's because she's butters.
     
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  20. Dan

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    Fully expected it but well played anyway. Just as a warning though, any more like that and I'll **** you up.
     
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