I'd actually prefer the away leg first. Try and get a win at their place, which means in our home leg, they'd have to come out and attack us, leaving plenty of gaps. If we had the home leg first, they'd happily sit back for a draw or sneak a win. If they get that win, they'd just sit back in their home tie, with 10 men behind the ball Let's get it over with in the away leg, like we did against Palace!
I would prefer finishing second and not have to go through the play-off's. But if we do, then the away leg first. Palace has so many more happy memories than Dull City....