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sign of the times?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by thefanwithnoname, Jul 14, 2012.

  1. thefanwithnoname

    thefanwithnoname Well-Known Member

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    One of my kids starts high school next term and I was at the induction evening. We had to fill in some forms and I was a little shocked to see how things had changed.

    Bearing in mind i have 2 kids at that school and had been to 2 induction evenings before and filled in forms, I was a little saddened with how things seem to have changed.

    In a nutshell it was the form that asked for parental/doctor/emergency contact details, in particular the parental bit. It wasnt simply 'parents' or mum and dad as in the past. This time it was quite a substantial section and asked questions like who do you live with are your parents together etc etc

    Anyway it just bought home to me how 'broken' we have become as a society and what was once the exception is now the norm. It took questions on a form to bring it home
     
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  2. ManDingo 20"/20"

    ManDingo 20"/20" MDMA Guru

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    Being asked too many questions constitutes a broken society?

    I hope you die.
     
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  3. Clunge Beater

    Clunge Beater Active Member

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    Well given that you got booted out of the teaching profession for spying on kids in the showers then it's no wonder that so many questions are asked these days <ok>
     
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  4. Toby

    Toby GC's Life Coach

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    Fan's imaginary kids <doh>
     
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  5. Furcough 2hats

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    I'm glad the school system have finally moved with the times.
    It shows they're sensitive to the feelings of those with a less traditional family circumstance by providing more options in regards to parental figures .
    How can that be a bad thing?


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  6. SaintsForTheWin

    SaintsForTheWin Any holes a goal

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    What's high school? This isn't America, arse hole.
     
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  7. Bullet tooth Tony

    Bullet tooth Tony Well-Known Member

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    He has a point though, for the first time for sure. On a need to know basis, why the hell does a school have to know the status of a child's parental circumstances. They need to concentrate on actually teaching the kid's rather than delving into the personal background and their status at home. If a child is playing up then do so, but not until.
     
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  8. ManDingo 20"/20"

    ManDingo 20"/20" MDMA Guru

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    So because a child plays up it automatically reflects badly on the parents and thats when they need to supply information?

    Crock of ****e.
     
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  9. irishgreen

    irishgreen Well-Known Member

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    It's called child protection you numbnuts. Why shouldn't a school know about a kids homelife?
     
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  10. Bullet tooth Tony

    Bullet tooth Tony Well-Known Member

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    Child protection begins at home. for every peado parent there is a ***** teacher, or priest, as in your case.
     
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  11. irishgreen

    irishgreen Well-Known Member

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    Nah cuckoo, being serious, some kids (as you well know) are battered to **** by 'Parents' at home.I don't blame schools for wanting all the info they can.
     
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  12. Bullet tooth Tony

    Bullet tooth Tony Well-Known Member

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    But what can knowing the status of said child's parents do for this situation? As I said earlier, if a child has behaviour problems then investigate. The fact that his /her parents are separated/ divorced/living with another is irrelevant.
     
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  13. irishgreen

    irishgreen Well-Known Member

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    Fact is cuckoo, the kids behaviour doesn't come into it but it's welfare does.If a child comes into school with a busted face then the school has a right to know what happened IMO.
     
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  14. Bullet tooth Tony

    Bullet tooth Tony Well-Known Member

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    ig look at the OP, you are stating irrelevant ...opinions, sorry mate but you have gone off at at tangent.
     
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  15. irishgreen

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    Not really cuckoo, I can understand the schools looking this info. That's all I'm saying.
     
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  16. Bullet tooth Tony

    Bullet tooth Tony Well-Known Member

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    Child welfare is the most important thing for me too, but having information as of the child's parental status is not part of the curriculum. Schools/Teacher's have a hard enough task educating our children as it is, so. I would rather them deal with this than have to monitor their home life. There is a body of persons dedicated to protect children's welfare. But to imply that children with non married parents or any other guardian status is bad for said child is nonsense.
     
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  17. irishgreen

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    But how are they implying this?

    They just want to care for the kids.
     
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  18. Hash.

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  19. irishgreen

    irishgreen Well-Known Member

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    You on the **** Hash? Wrong thread. <ok>
     
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  20. Hash.

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    its not worthy of a new thread , and it mentions his mother and this is about parents so ...
     
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