A very close mate of mine, who I have known over 20 years, has recently started seeing a new lady freind. They have been out quite a few times and get along really well. I'm really thrilled at his recent relationship success because he lost his previous girlfreind to cancer and was on his own for a number of years following her passing. We had arranged to meet up,(four of us - him, his new lady + Mrs Joker and myself), just a few days ago. They had arrived at the restaurant before us and were having a drink at the bar. As myself and Mrs Joker arrived, I spotted them and noticed my friend kissing his new lady... I was utterly horrified to find that I knew who she was! She is a married woman, who is married to one of my work colleagues! ... I quickly realised that I couldn't actually go through with the meeting of them because I had actually met her before and spent some time with her husband and herself socially! I haven't spoken to my freind since and for the first time in my life find myself utterly socially paralysed... what the hell should I do?
Stop being a prick. What do you think this is? Just Joan? You do what any normal bloke would do. Stop giving a **** and get on with your life. Prick.
A truly harrowing personal dilemma... indeed Personally I would tell this ladies husband. That way you haven't hurt your friend directly and hopefully she will be the one to do that.
Wow! That is some seriously impressive internet warrior moves there! ... Don't worry, I wasn't going to tell anyone it was your wife who's playing away... Oops!
There you go again, only this time you're judging everyone else by your own standards... You're really not very good at this, are you? ...
would it be possible for you to arrange to meet your friend and his new woman at some bar , while also arranging for her husband to be there on some other pretext ?.....................and if so could you film the result and post it on here ?