Really inspiring read https://www.theguardian.com/footbal...h-afeida-khandeka-dreams-big-after-qualifying
https://www.readytogo.net/smb/threads/wtf-pod-chased-off-twitter.1662883/ Yesterday at 5:57 PM #1 Would just like to say, that the WTF team have given in to the Twitter abuse. 'Graham and team, I know what it’s like. 5 negative voices can cut through 5000 positive voices. They’ve likely never seen a sunderland home or away end. Come back. Don’t let them win.' Reactions:Mr Redknapp, admwil, MackemTonyG and 12 others
That's the same with Hetty over the road. Her constant sniping at me and being desperate to start my usual threads before me just wore me down until I broke. Match threads, RAWA stuff, National Trust passes, weekend plans etc.
Yeah I can sort of relate to that. I used to post on a daft thread in Parsnip, Happy Tuesday, it was a bit like the idle chit chat thread, just people chatting $hit, in some cases literally. The thread must have generated enough traffic for Hetty to notice it and suddenly at 00:01hrs on a Tuesday morning there she is posting Happy Tuesday, just so she has the first post. The feeling on the thread just changed. Anyway, minor problem, really, as I don't post much over there now anyway. It's just a shame it's impacted you at a much higher level and, more importantly, stopped you from helping people. Something that you're good at. You'll just have to help out us poor basket cases over here
I'm not allowed to post on Happy Tuesday as me being there affects her mental health. Ditto several other threads I used to chat in and the depression thread that I used to help people in. I've ignored her and not engaged in conversation with her on said threads but just my presence on them is triggering to her. It's bizarre how her mental health trumps anyone elses mental health. Nobody over there seems to give a flying f*** that my mental health has suffered by her forcing me off threads and her taking over threads I used to post. I'm also annoyed that she's telling people I'm no longer the RAWA rep and people need to contact RAWA directly instead of going through me.
Sounds like an internet version of coercive control mixed with gaslighting. Pretty unpleasant yet the mods there are saying 'yes that's fine, carry on' by letting it run.
