Frome, although the use of the word "activist" here appears quite derogatory although I am sure you do not mean it that way, I agree with you that she does seem to be looking for a fight. However I understand her anger, as I feel it too.
It was a vigil.But she does seem to have lost the meaning of last night in her anger.
However, this needs to be dealt with quickly (with people called to account) and a line drawn under it.
Womens right to be safe in our cities does not to be addressed and quickly and not by statements like "Do not wear attractive clothing", "do not smile at people", "wear sensible clothes so you can run", "always carry your keys in your hand so you can punch someone"