Off Topic I’ve been shadow banned from Twitter

You take this **** on here way too literally at times

 

You think?

I'm posting far less these days.

 

You just did.

And ?

 

ok

 

Good point well made.

 

Don't mind at all mate.
My son died at birth (he was born prematurely)...quite a long story but he had an unpronouncable condition with a **** load of letters.

Back then they did not offer funerals in these cases...never gave birth certificates or death certificates so it was pretty much as though he was not important.

The tree is kind of in place of a grave. It has a bench next to it.

Probably sounds weird but I feel like I can go and be with him.

Another of my weird stories...

In 2008 spurs played Liverpool on the night before the anniversary of his death. I had taken both my girls to matches but a part of me wished I had been able to him too.

Mrs RCL encouraged me to buy a ticket and it genuinely felt like I had taken him to a spurs game (it's ok ... I know it's mad!!!)

The next day (like I always do on the anniversary) I went to Greenwich Park, sat on the bench with a coffee and read the match report in the papers. It was raining quite heavily and people were walking past looking at me as though I was called George

 

I don't know what to say. but

 

Greenwich Park is a part of me too bruv. Feeding monkey nuts to the squirrels and standing on the meridian line at the royal observatory.
God bless your lad

 

That is incredible tbh.

Trust me it doesn't sound weird or mad at all. I have my own reasons for asking and appreciate what you've said and it makes perfect sense. I think it has helped in fact. Thank you.

 

Cheers guys....for all the general lunacy, piss taking and assorted ****yness on here It is a good place to chat ... I genuinely like this place.

 

If I ever end up in Greenwich Park, I’ll sit on that bench. Probably with a beer though!

 

@Matth_2014 your fan club have a message for you

Some 200,000 bees living in hives on the roof of Notre Dame were initially thought to have perished in the blaze.

However Mattholomew Carrickfan, the cathedral's beekeeper, has confirmed that the bees are alive and buzzing.

Mattholomew has looked after the cathedral's three beehives since 2013, when they were installed.

That was part of an initiative to boost bee numbers across Paris.

The hives sit on top of the sacristy by Notre-Dame's south side, around 30m (98 ft) below the main roof. As a result, Mr Carrickfan says they remained untouched by the flames.


https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-47995604

 

I'm glad mate...thanks

 

Thanks mate, it's not all ****inness.

I know most like myself read most posts. we skip many posts, but sometimes somethings grabs our attention.

I've lost a kid before, and also (maybe one for another thread) an abortion.

**** me, there would have been to many little Comms. Ican't keep up now.

But i'm really sorry for your loss mate.

 

Very true...and I am very sorry for your losses too mate.
Have a good rest of weekend

 

ha, im back in work tomorrow mate.

Ilike to read about how hectic peoples lives are. Some are genuine, some sound like a walk in the park.

 

Mines a walk in the park compared to most.

 

Probably not as easy as mine was for years mate.

 

This place is ****ing amazing when a genuine conversation breaks out, people share on here knowing full well how twatish some can be yet the real people always come to the surface in reply.
Thanks for sharing RCL, sorry for your loss but really pleased to know you have found a means to live with it.

 

yes mate

always the same. utter ****s, but in reality, they;re not.