Sorry to hear about your uncle mate. Just be comforted by the fact that he would have wanted you to see him off with a good piss up
Have had a very funny afternoon. The fam flew in from Spain. Regaled stories it’s all good I couldn’t tell my stories as most involved me off my box on things you can’t repeat in front of your dad etc.
I've got loads of those too, bit off limits for family. Not sure my old dear would appreciate the humour of being twated on Class A's
I lost an uncle a few years ago and didn't go to his funeral because I had some **** going on down here at the time. Really regret it now and my cousins have never really forgiven me for that. At the time though, I had to make a decision about who I thought needed me more at the time, so you do what you think is best in the moment.