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Discussion in 'The Premier League' started by Commachio, Oct 13, 2018.

  1. thefanwithnoname

    thefanwithnoname Well-Known Member

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    Follow the conversation ffs mate

    That's what piskie wrote and I responded .
     
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  2. Commachio

    Commachio Rambo 2021

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    Bumming session.

    Sorry mate, ive actually took the the time to log onto my laptop, and now i know why the phone easier,,,your stupid ****ing signature is like a 8 year olds kids..why do you do this ****?
     
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  3. thefanwithnoname

    thefanwithnoname Well-Known Member

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    Sorry (and it may have changed) but loving home was not sufficient for adopting. See the bme kids bits I posted
     
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  4. brb

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    Where do you think homophobia comes from in kids?

    It's not the kids that are the problem but the hetrosexual parents. Primary school, seriously mate, think about it.
     
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  5. Libby

    Libby Derby County, we're coming for you

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    You said 'if one parent must be same ethnicity' when that's clearly not true so how is it relevant in any way shape of form? It's just utter horseshit.

    I see you're resorting to 'google it' and 'what i know as fact' blah de ****ing blah which is your standard when people ask you to clarify your posts.
     
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  6. Diego

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    I would expect no less <ok>
    You understand my concern after recent events though I take it?
     
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  7. PINKIE

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    I don't think it's a 'must be' scenario. I think it's more about seeking at least one parent of similar ethnicity in order to give the child some cultural context to their parent/child relationship. So that the child can learn about the culture of their ethnicity through a parent who has experienced it.

    I don't think Gay/Straight comes into the same category. A child isn't (or shouldn't be) sexualised at all. They should be a child and the main concern is having loving parents who care for them. Their own sexuality is something they will explore when they become teenagers.
     
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  8. thefanwithnoname

    thefanwithnoname Well-Known Member

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    No doubt mate. I think I mentioned before that I did one of those live science events at the local uni and I was amazed that we had to separate certain schools. They were as young as 5 ffs

    When I say separate I mean they were all about fighting each other.
     
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  9. PINKIE

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    Sorry, thought you wanted a decent thread with some good debate.
     
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    But affected by what's around them at home?
     
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  11. Commachio

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    So. Having gay parents will make them ok>
     
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  12. thefanwithnoname

    thefanwithnoname Well-Known Member

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    Because piskie typed it and I responded. He only typed it as a response to what I had said tbf. But again follow he conversation
     
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  13. brb

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    Homophobia, same as racism comes from the parents.
     
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  14. brb

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    Nope, I've never said that - there is no book to parenting, you either get it right or you don't. Nowt wrong in making mistakes that's how we learn, as long has we learn from them.
     
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    PINKIE Wurzel Gummidge

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    Again, what effect ?
     
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  16. thefanwithnoname

    thefanwithnoname Well-Known Member

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    I agree.
     
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  17. Libby

    Libby Derby County, we're coming for you

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    Learn on the job imo.

    You can prepare yourself as much as like for it but once that day comes your going on instinct mainly <ok>

    It's why some people ain't cut out for it too.
     
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  18. Commachio

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    We're still not looking at it from the kids for view,,
     
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  19. brb

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    You just want a 20 pager <laugh>
     
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  20. thefanwithnoname

    thefanwithnoname Well-Known Member

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    Back to the beginning

    Are you seriously suggesting their environment won't have any effect on their life, outlook, even enjoyment or friendships if they live in a crappy homophobic area or school?
     
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