Think you may be placing þoo much emphasis on the breeze ... in future check whether the sun thing is out first
Lying in a hotel bed with a stunning Scottish girl, in Carlisle. She's got the best arse I've ever seen in my life. It was an absolute pleasure walking through the bars with her last night watching every head turn looking her up and down. Brilliant buck too which was the icing on the cake. Heading back to Newcastle in a couple hours.
I'm at a massive ****ing crossroad in my life and really ****ed as to know what to do. Quite scary tbh. Nothing compared to other people's problems on here but still a big deal for me. Put it this way I might be moving into Commys lads pad soon.
That's the killer point. He comes first, way before me. I won't go into details but he walked in on a discussion, he wants to come with me. I'm cool with that but think he probably needs his mum more as He's 9. She's a fantastic mum and a great woman. It might not be happening but I'm extremely concerned for everyone involved. Anyone that has an issue with me talking about this on here... a message for ya - go **** yourself
Like all kids of that age, he loves you both and would be hurt to have a make a choice like that. No kid wants to see his parents separate, but then if you’re at each other’s throats, that ain’t good either. Sort it out with her, if you can mate, would be my advice.
Don't make any rushed or impulsive decisions mate. And if you can, try to keep channels of communication open with everybody involved. Good luck with it all
Good to share and get views as it helps provide perspective ... all the best with it Sky and sincere best wishes
Thanks guys. Not sure I've got much choice tbh. I haven't done anything wrong etc. Just time has pulled it apart, and it's her that is driving the issue. Nearly 15 years though so it's killing me.
Sorry to hear it mate, can only echo others in saying just make sure you think everything through and do what's best for your lad as I'm sure you will anyway. Know where I am if you wanna chat x
Ive been there mate, with 2 very young boys in the middle. It was a ****ing nightmare because she was such a bitch. You recognise the qualities in your partner as a mother. Acknowledge that and don't make the kids an issue. Kids are so resilient and as long as you both have regular access, if it does go pear shaped, they'll be fine. I was lucky. I met an amazing woman after that. I had shared custody and my boys and me are closer than ever! There's life afterwards mate. A good one if you stay strong. I hope it doesn't come to that for you but if it does stay strong and have good mates around you.
My parents divorced young and I hardly ever saw my dad. Our relationship wasn't what I would say was close but we were alright and we would help each other out .I know my brother was the same. My sister was really close but she was always a daddy's girl (we all hardly saw him) but my other sister had a proper chip on her shoulder but maybe cause he teased her. At the end of the day your boy will get over it. Most families have divorced parents. As long as you are both parents and it ends amicably then you will be all good.
What’s her beef mate? Might be worth considering counselling. Feel for you mate, I hope you get things sorted
Sorry to hear that sky. Always horrible Do you know what started it mate? It's not people filling ears with life better without and all that?
