Let me think about what is happening shortly. Oh yes, it is the Tory party conference. Cannot say anything yet to upset the party members. Meanwhile the true workhorses on both sides continue to work towards a form of words that will produce the offer of some sort of deal. Seeing as there is now little dispute that remain voters are in the majority, it shouldn't be too difficult for the population to accept something that looks very similar to what currently exists.
The decision on a deal is nothing to do with the population because they will not be asked again.
The pressure from the hard Brexiteers will concentrate the minds of the EU's negotiators, do a deal with May or find themselves dealing with a proper Brexiteer. No deal no ransom payment.