so on the stairs before she can say anything then. slam door, pin her to wall and warm her up then finish the job.... am I thinking out loud again?
I accidentally sent my mum a photo of the enema section at the local chemist and asked if she wanted me to pick her one up. Was meant for the Mrs. Good job the last person I texted was my mother or that would have gone to my boss instead.
It wasn't even for anything kinky. It was a joke... She had sent me to the chemist for something else.
Met up with the gf in a bar for a couple of hours, she was crying to varying degrees the whole time pretty much and I bought all the drinks. Didn't say straight up she wanted to end it but said she was confused and just basically listed off all my failings during the relationship and personally for the duration while sort of shaking her head at most things I said and not really seeming to give a **** about my own perspective, needs or opinions. Mostly she was telling me I'm too self-centred, distant and made the relationship too regimented by only being available on certain nights because I have activities I like to go and do like sport and the gym yet expecting me to be going to things with her whenever she suggests I go with her. Just the other day she said meeting two times a week was enough. Kind of got mixed messages, like she was saying she wants to see me more often but was also being pretty closed off and seemed like she'd had enough and was ready for the out. I tried to keep it positive and sort of fun and light where possible while also asking her what was going on with her and letting her vent at me and trying to be positive and understand things and listen. Found out some new stuff about her that she was saying I should've tried to ask about before. Now I kind of feel sorry for her and think she's had a difficult time in the past and is not all that happy a person, but how was I supposed to know this without feckin gypsy or some **** ?! Wasn't happy to see me at the start, no smile, no physicality or anything, just glum, had a short hug when she left after. Sent her a message later saying it was nice to see her and talk but gonna do nothing now.
Wow. That sounds like ****. You might have to occasionally miss your activities if you really like this girl to show her that you care. Sounds like the general girl though i.e. high maintenance.
How many nights are you unavailable? If it's 2 or 3 nights a week then she really needs to give you space. No relationship will work long term without each partner maintaining some self identity. If you're unavailable 5 nights a week, I can see her concern. Especially if this is a long term relationship. Is there anyway to see her on nights you do stuff? Even if not a full date? Is she willing to join you at the gym for example, or just come over later... Maybe not go out every night but when you get back from sports the two of you hang out just to spend the night together? You can't let her take away the nights you have that are for you; but you also can't grow a relationship if you never see each other. There has to be a middle ground.
Dump her. Sounds like hard work, and as self centred as you appear to be. You seem to be to alike to be in a relationship.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-42804741 "We need armed officers in every school in Kentucky," Mr Jones said. "That is a small price to pay if it saves one child's life."
The thinking is ludicrous. The whole point is surprise. so arming teachers = escalation of aggressor force. if they said security badges and locked doors and zones and all of that fine.
1/4 of all the guns in the world are owned by 3% of Americans. We need a more equal distribution of guns. Make it illegal to not carry a gun. If you aren't carrying a gun you aren't defending those around you from guns. Guns.
look tbh we don't know what you sent to her on texts and stuff since your fight over what was an invite to a dinner thing. whatever you said pissed her right off either wrongly or rightly. thats her position if she is that mad. however.... if you are not for changing then don't change. if she's got her own issues she needs to sort them herself whatever they are and stop projecting them on you unless you really deserve it
Maybe they should just give all students loaded handguns starting at primary school. Preferably make sure all guns don't have safety switches so they're always ready in case of an attacker.
