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Off topic- Janie & me split up

Discussion in 'Sunderland' started by Billy Death, Aug 15, 2011.

  1. Billy Death

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    Ok, so it might not be a surprise to some of you but I am ****ing gutted.

    She's ****ed off back to her mams in Dunston.

    Never loved anyone so ****ing much ever in my life.

    Hey ho, life moves on eh?
     
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  2. MrRAWhite

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    Sorry to here that Chunky...I had no idea that things were so bad...
     
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  3. blackcatsteve

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    WOW!! a shock to me, you lasted 10 minutes last night didnt you (that was you wasnt it).

    Sorry to here that, she may come back.

    Mine is the other way around, goes to her mams for a few days on good terms (with what happened, thats been more and more frequent) she comes back and wants a divorce.
     
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  4. Poyet's Eleven

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    Woah, sorry to hear that mate!

    I didn't even know you had a wife.
     
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  5. Billy Death

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    Cheers lads, nee ones fault but my own if I'm honest.

    She wasn't my wife Vaughan, just my lass like & thankfully my three kids are to another lass so nee botha there.

    Hope she does come back but not gonna beg her.

    Can't really blame her anyhow.
     
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  6. Poyet's Eleven

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    Well good luck mate!
     
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  7. MrRAWhite

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    I hope everything turns out for the best for the pair of you marra...
     
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  8. safc1978

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    Sorry to hear about your sad news Billy hope it all works out for you good luck
     
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  9. Billy Death

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    Yes, I know what you are talking about mate & I had the same happen to me but not with Jane.

    That was one of the things that contributed to Kerry & me splitting up all those years ago.

    ****ing waffling now like.

    I need to shut the **** up & go to bed.

    See ya lads.

    Cheers again.
     
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  10. MrRAWhite

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    I me an all...goodnight..<ok>
     
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  11. Steven Royston O'Neill

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    Sorry Billy, I have lost 2 wives who decided the grass was greener and they were probably right but it hurts like **** at the time. Steve am I reading you right, she wants a divorce.
     
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  12. Billy Death

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    Cheers Sydney, now I have that on my mind as well as some unimportant game at the weekend.

    Aint life just a bowl of cherries eh?
     
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    You'll get over it. Happened to me, mate. Wife popped out for a pint of milk one day and never came back. How do you cope in a situation like that - just use the powdered stuff!!!!!!!!!!
     
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  15. Billy Death

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    That made me chuckle like, cheers mate.
     
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    :emoticon-0148-yes:
     
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  17. blackcatsteve

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    she always does lol

    Its more post natal depression, and with the baby dieing its worse than normal, she gets all depressed, goes to her mams for a few days, gets a bit better, but expects me to do a **** load of housework, well its usually the weekend so sport is on, comes back, house is worse than she left it, gets pissed off, cleans up, 2 days later, as she is getting down again, "i was going to go to the solicitors and get a divorce, when i came back" next day she is fine, chirpy etc day after that, down again so goes to her mams. Its been a viscous circle lately, but i am useless with depression, so laid back suprised I dont fall off my chair, never been depressed in my life, so just cant understand it which = useless with dealing with it for the most part.
     
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  18. MrRAWhite

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    Hang in there mate...I'm sure things will get better with time if you manage to ride this out...
     
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  19. parkersafc

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    Chin up, concentrate on Saturday. Have a skin full before the match and then sing your heart out for the lads.
     
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  20. Sunderpitt

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    So Janie, woke up and smelt the coffee!
     
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