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Discussion in 'Southampton' started by TheSecondStain, Jul 15, 2014.

  1. davecg69

    davecg69 Well-Known Member

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    There you go - as TLL says, she sounds as shy as you. Go with it, don't ask again, just go with your feelings. Good luck mate!
     
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  2. Libby

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    Has reminded that this is the first Valentines day I'm single for since 2012 <yikes>
     
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  3. Whiteley Saint

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    Plenty of time yet TLL. :emoticon-0103-cool:
     
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  4. fran-MLs little camera

    fran-MLs little camera Well-Known Member

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    Think she is hitting on you TLL<laugh> You only really have to worry when it is me.
     
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  5. Whiteley Saint

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    You know when I posted that I thought,,,,hmmm is this a good idea. I hoped the :emoticon-0103-cool: would clarify it :emoticon-0107-sweat
     
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  6. fran-MLs little camera

    fran-MLs little camera Well-Known Member

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    Actually looked suggestive. :)
     
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  7. Le Tissier's Laces

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    I think she protests too much :)

    Embrace it TLL (the being single I mean. Or Whiteley. Either way!)
     
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  8. davecg69

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    Being single is the way to go.
     
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  9. fran-MLs little camera

    fran-MLs little camera Well-Known Member

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    I agree....for some people. I like to make all my own decisions and consult no one....however that may not suit everyone (and was certainly difficult when my son was a teenager). You have to be able to live with yourself as that is the only person you can be certain will be there till the end. The lucky ones are the ones who get what they really want...being single if you want it or being in a relationship if that's what you prefer. The sad thing is when the situation isn't what you would choose.
     
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  10. davecg69

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    Well said, Fran. I admit I have a somewhat jaundiced view of it, but, at least, at the moment, I'm trying to enjoy making my own decisions, though I'm under pressure to possibly "commit" further (the dreaded "C" word) and am gently pushing back.
    It must be awful, however, to be alone and lonely when you crave someone's attention and love.
     
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  11. ChilcoSaint

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    Some people are lucky though. My aunt and uncle, for example, met in their village school when they were 4 years old, and never looked at anyone else for the rest of their lives. They both died last year having been together for over 80 years!
     
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  12. fatletiss

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    We definitely will go straight to the whiskey!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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  13. fran-MLs little camera

    fran-MLs little camera Well-Known Member

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    I am a strange mixture...single suits me, but I am romantic and I love to hear of people in love and happy.
     
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  14. fatletiss

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    Aren't you single and in love with Saints? Perfect relationship. Has it all. Frustrates you, drives you crazy, only need to see them once or twice a week so you get some freedom and you know you love them because no matter how much they piss you off, you always go back.
     
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  15. Libby

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    <laugh>

    No I'm actually kinda enjoying it at the moment.

    Might hit the town up on Valentines day though <whistle>
     
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  16. Qwerty

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    A romantic trip to Sunderland on 11th Feb for us.
     
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    If I play my cards right, this could be the first Valentine's Day i'm not single for... ever.
     
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  18. Libby

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    Good luck mate, just don't overthink things <ok>
     
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    Rock n roll Qwerty .....
     
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  20. fran-MLs little camera

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    A football club is harder to get rid off than a husband. Sometimes it's all skipping through meadows, but too often it's like dragging an anchor.
     
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