Look mate you just asked "black tranny?" with no context and I was just asking you what you were talking about and trying to make a joke out of it. I'm still okayish.
If I got rid of Sky & BT and my two gym memberships I'd save roughly £3,000 per year. My wife would take that extra £3k and put it in her spending pot, figuratively speaking, and I'd never see a penny of it. I find that shrewd on my part, to be fair.
I manage the finances - well - I pay all the bills - I have my season card for SAFC and my SkySports (My brother has BT so I use his online account to watch that) and that's me - I get most of the stuff I want (got a new guitar last year for £1300) and she gets most of the stuff she does so it's a happy relationship... Although she runs the house outside of paying the bills - I only pay the bills cos she hasn't learnt how my spreadsheet works yet